Making 2018 the Year of the Comeback

Have you ever had a year you looked back on and thought I can’t believe I went through all of that!? Well, for me, last year was quite the doozy!

As I mentioned in my post 3 Ways Starting a Blog Can Be Beneficial, 2017 will go in the books as the most difficult year of my life…hands down!

My world was shattered to pieces. My core beliefs were tested. The vision I had for my future dissipated. It even got to the point where I questioned my own identity.

When you go through something like that, it either makes you crazy or lights a fire under you. For me, it makes me want to come back with a punch (maybe with a little bit of crazy sprinkled on top).

But enough with the drama….

I’ve determined 2018 to be my best year yet. Before the holidays were even over, I listed a series of goals I want to accomplish over the course of the year. On January 1st I hit the ground running.

I figured letting you know what I’m up to will make me accountable and…who knows?….give you some ideas of your own. A Goal Without a Plan is Just a Wish

Start the Year with a Challenge Kickoff

I love to start my year off with an organized challenge or two…or in this case, three…to get myself geared up for success. I merely identified the areas in my life where I’d like to see the biggest improvement and started looking for ways to put on the pressure.

For each challenge I joined a Facebook group with a similar mission. This makes me accountable for my choices and gives me sense of camaraderie.

If I ever get the hankering to quit, I know I will have to do so with everyone knowing. Personally, I do not want to be known as a quitter and am more likely to keep going if I realize my failure will be public.

To kick off 2018, I chose some challenges that I knew would get me started on the right foot.


The idea of Whole30 is that you learn to break bad eating habits and develop new ones over the course of 30 days. The program forces you to read labels, break any addictions you have, quit opting for the “easy route” and give your body a reset.

Losing weight is not the priority of the program. In fact, they encourage you to put the scale away until the 30 days are up! I personally need to stop obsessing about my weight and solely focus on my health.

At this point, I am a week and a half into the program and absolutely love it so far! To be honest, I was dreading the idea of drinking coffee with no sugar and never thought it would be possible for me.

As we speak, I am enjoying a cup of black coffee…..BLACK COFFEE! I use to think only old men drink black coffee! It just goes to show you how effective Whole30 is in changing your eating habits.

Home Organization Challenge

First of all, if you aren’t already following A Bowl Full of Lemons with Toni Hammersley, then I suggest you get started! Her site is just about the only source you need when it comes to cleaning and organization inspiration.

Each year, she hosts a Home Organization Challenge that is designed to push you to get your home in order over the course of 14 weeks.

With the hopes of selling our house this coming spring, I knew it would be a good idea to get my home in tip-top shape!

I love that she has printable checklists to help you stay focused and complete your goal one step at a time.

Online Book Club

I came across a Facebook group/book club that would be diving into some self-help books I knew I needed in my life.

For example, we are starting off the year with the book Breathe, Mama, Breathe and, boy, do I need it! This book aims toward mothers who want to stop going about their day set on autopilot and learn to have more presence of mind.

Sometimes I can be so in my own head and out of touch with reality. Good reads help me refocus, give me inspiration, and help me keep it together…most days.

Book and Coffee

Goals for the Remaining Year

Of course, when the 14 weeks of the Home Organization challenge is over I’ll still have 38 weeks left to utilize. Some of my goals for this year include:

  • Complete a Spartan Race
  • Sell our home
  • Start a business
  • Have both of my sons potty trained
  • Remove my acne scars (they’ve haunted me for so long!)
  • Get into the habit/routine of starting each day with God. I cannot face this life without Him!
  • Go to Disney World for the first time
  • Learn to live with intention and develop a presence of mind
  • Grow out my hair

As the year goes on I will, inevitably, add and remove goals from the list. The idea is to set a course so I can learn to live my life with more purpose.

Quote for the New Year

So Basically…

You can expect to see me dive into new experiences and share my thoughts along the way. I feel that documenting my growth for you to see will fuel my motivation to become a better me.

I have so much in store for this year. Please continue to stop on by and check up on me. Leave a comment and let me know if you have some of the same goals in mind. I’d love to know what we have in common!







January 12, 2018
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  • Reply Rochelle

    I love this! Being intentional makes all the difference in the world. In my life, nothing much changed until I started getting really clear about what I wanted my life to look like and being intentional about making it happen.

    January 13, 2018 at 2:25 pm
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      Glad you liked it and completely agree! It makes such a difference when you lay out a plan and set goals. We only get one life and living with intention, I believe, is the key to getting the most out of it!

      January 13, 2018 at 2:31 pm
  • Reply Melanie

    These are great goals! Good luck in your comeback effort!

    January 18, 2018 at 3:06 pm
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      Thank you!

      January 18, 2018 at 3:39 pm
  • Reply Debbie

    I love your goals and your attitude!! All the best for you in 2018! You can do this!! 💕

    January 19, 2018 at 1:54 am
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      So appreciate the encouragement, Debbie!

      January 19, 2018 at 1:56 am
  • Reply Nadalie Bardowell

    I really like the picture with the quote that read “a goal without a plan is just a a wish”. That is totally inspirational and true. Your goals seem quite reasonable and easy to achieve, best of luck staying on track and I hope you’re able to complete every single one of them even if it takes all year. He he.

    January 19, 2018 at 7:06 am
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      I’m blessed to have so many people cheering me on! Makes all the difference😄

      January 19, 2018 at 11:09 am
  • Reply Catherine Turner

    Love this post! There’s nothing like a bad year to give you the kick to start making changes! 2016 was that year for me. Hope 2018 goes really well for you!

    January 26, 2018 at 10:36 pm
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      That’s the good thing about hard times. It’s gets your rear in gear!

      January 26, 2018 at 10:37 pm
  • Reply Bunny

    2017 was definitely a doozy! It felt like falling out of a tree and having the wind knocked out of me. I just had to lay their a while and gather myself together. I too am goal oriented. Once I set my mind on something, I seldom find myself unsuccessful. My problem is that I can only focus on one thing at a time. This year will be my first to accomplish several goals at the same time, without disrupting the daily grind. I’ve have also enlisted the help of my teens which is a first for me too. I usually prefer to work on my own, but I am determined to not shut out my family as I work through these days of change. Verbalizing your goals to family and friends and putting yourself out there is a great way to start every new challenge. After all, they are your loudest cheerleaders!

    February 9, 2018 at 4:05 pm
    • Reply Bunny

      Lol! Guh! I should really edit my comments before posting. But, l’m sure you are used to my bad grammar and one finger texting.

      February 9, 2018 at 4:09 pm
      • Reply From Grit To Pearl

        I honestly didn’t notice😄 Beautifully said!

        February 9, 2018 at 5:02 pm
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  • Reply Simon Humpries

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    July 23, 2020 at 11:21 am
    • Reply From Grit To Pearl

      So kind of you!! I have been dabbling with it over the past two years but my my perfectionism gets in the way of product content regularly. I need to change that!

      September 15, 2020 at 1:35 am

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